No Epitaph

No moss nor mottle stains

My parents’ unmarked grave;

My word on them remains

Stouter than stone, you told me.

 

“Martyred to words”, you have thought,

Should be your epitaph;

At other times you fought

My self-reproaches down.

 

Though bitterly once or twice

You have reproached me with how

Everything ended in words,

We both know better now:

 

You understand, I shall not

If I survive you care

To raise a headstone for

You I have carved on air.


Copyright Credit: Donald Davie, "No Epitaph" from Selected Poems. Copyright © 1985 by Donald Davie.  Reprinted by permission of Carcanet Press, Ltd.
Source: Selected Poems (Carcanet Press Ltd, 1985)